Who Defines a “Good Response"? Cultural Adaptation in Generative AI Interactions in Family Contexts

Authors

  • Siying Li Graduate School of Global Business, Kyonggi University, Suwon 16227, South Korea; School of Management, University of Science and Technology Liaoning, Liaoning 114000, China
  • Chen Gao Graduate School of Global Business, Kyonggi University, Suwon 16227, South Korea

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.6918/IJOSSER.202609_9(9).0032

Keywords:

Generative artificial intelligence; Confucian ethics; parenting; cultural adaptation; human-computer interaction; cross-cultural research.

Abstract

As generative artificial intelligence moves more deeply into family life, it may influence how children seek information, express emotion, and form value judgments. The normative problem examined here is therefore not simply whether an AI response appears friendly or reasonable. A further question is whether the same response carries an equivalent educational meaning across different ethical contexts of family life. To address that question, this article treats ren (benevolence), yi (righteousness), li (propriety), zhi (practical wisdom), xin (trustworthiness), xiao (filiality), he (harmony), and chi (moral shame) as analytical lenses. Comparative cultural analysis, conceptual analysis, normative reconstruction, and eight thought experiments are then brought together to consider two sides of AI responses: the values they protect and the relational conditions they may leave insufficiently examined. Five dimensions organize the tensions identified through this analysis: relationality, regulation, discernment, truthfulness, and motivation. On that basis, the article proposes design principles concerning relational sensitivity, age appropriateness, honest feedback, and responsibility-oriented reflection. The framework should, however, be read within its stated limits. It is intended as a contestable and revisable theoretical construction, rather than as empirical evidence about actual parental attitudes or child developmental outcomes.

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2026-09-17

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Li, S., & Gao, C. (2026). Who Defines a “Good Response"? Cultural Adaptation in Generative AI Interactions in Family Contexts. International Journal of Social Science and Education Research, 9(9), 263-282. https://doi.org/10.6918/IJOSSER.202609_9(9).0032